DO what you love to do and know what you want.
Jump in and get wet. Seize the moment.
BEing your Authentic Self and DOing what you have a passion for, opens the door, to HAVEing what you want. When that door opens, ya gotta be ready. Be steady.
Express yourself. If you don't, it passes by. Bye-bye..
BE - DO - HAVE
I've got step 1, BE.
I often have step 2, or at least the start of it, but, have lately, not, seized the moment.
I see it, feel it, but fail to Seize it! I let it walk by. Bye-bye!
So seize it: 1- Keep it simple. 2- Be real. 3- Honest. Take, that opportunity.
2 & 3, are done by being authentic.
Break the ice. The ice is a thin layer. It immediately shatters - making that initial contact.
Dang, it is so simple. The only hurdle, is that initial fear, of exposing oneself. (Out of the box).
Yeah, keep it simple; real and honest. You are reaching out to this person because there is at least one thing about them, that you admire. So, a simple, real and honest admiration flow: "I love your energy." or "You have lovely eyes." (Express/show interest).
While keeping it simple, being real and honest, show interest and either make statements or ask admiring questions. If they have tattoos, "That is beautiful ink you have." or "Do you live locally?"
Be interested and find things that you agree on. Allow them to ask you questions and be simple and honest with your answers.
Allow this to grow. Exchanging ideas, more communication, you both find more things you agree on (reality). Doing these 2 things, increases affinity. (the degree to which people like to be close to one another).
If these things are occurring, the next step, is touch. A simple touch of your hand to theirs for a moment. Possibly if talking about their hair, ask "May I touch it"...
You are on, your way...